His wife had left him a year before I met him and they were divorced. I went a week, respecting his wishes before he called me to spend the night with him.He had been through a tough time with his wife leaving him and his cancer and whipple procedure, chemo etc. I still consider him my boyfriend though and would never think of dating anyone while he's breathing on this earth..i'm sure I'll even have trouble after he's gone. I have my good days and my bad days..get worse the longer I go without seeing him.I met I girl a few months back that is absolutely amazing. We fell for each other hard and both felt like we were supposed to be together.Soon after things became serious she let me know that she has been battling cancer for 10 years. She had already been through treatment for it twice. Error Banner.fade_out.modal_overlay.modal_overlay .modal_wrapper.modal_overlay [email protected](max-width:630px)@media(max-width:630px).modal_overlay .modal_fixed_close.modal_overlay .modal_fixed_close:before.modal_overlay .modal_fixed_close:before.modal_overlay .modal_fixed_close:before.modal_overlay .modal_fixed_close:hover:before. Selector .selector_input_interaction .selector_input. Selector .selector_input_interaction .selector_spinner.
At this point, even a phone call or an invitation to come and sit quietly with him would mean the world to me.I still consider her my girlfriend and have not even thought about leaving or being with anyone else.She keeps me at a distance, but I try to let her know that I am there for her and still love her.I dont mind doing this, but she is very stubborn and will not let me help her or really be there for her. I have explained that I would like to do anything to make her life easier, but she will not let me in.I have never dealt with anything like this before, so I would just like some advice on her to get closer to her.