This means that when you’re escalating on a woman, you need to push the envelope.
Even if you think she might consider what you’re doing “creepy”, you need to go for it.
The older man / younger women stuff also generally applies to any man who is hitting up any woman of legal age who is more than 10 years younger than he is.
(Since men hitting up women within one to nine years younger is considered “normal” by society in most cases.) So in a way, a 45 year old man working with a 26 year old woman would apply here, even though she’s technically not a VYW.
The good news is that the world is filled with super hot Type 2s and Type 3s, and I’m talking about what most men would consider 9s and 10s. Whenever I go out on a first date with a VYW, not only do I the older man aspect.
These women will be more than happy to sleep with a much older man. I know that since she’s agreed to a date with me, she’s not a Type 1, so she’s either a Type 2 (in which case fast sex will be very easy as long as I don’t majorly screw anything up) or a Type 3 (in which case my odds are a little lower and a little more comfort-building time will be required).
These guys dress like nerds, have hair and grooming that look like crap, and worse, are often way too skinny or fat. You could dress like crap and not worry about your hair or your clothing too much, and still probably get laid.
But if you’re 44 years old hitting up 21 year-old women, I’m sorry, but you’re going to have to step it up a little.
If you’re over 30, you will never, and I mean never sleep with a Type 1 VYW. If she was a Type 1 you would have never gotten her pants off.
Here then are the four mistakes men most often make when trying to attract younger women.
Mistake 1: Trying To Act Younger This is the granddaddy of them all.
Younger women is a topic I haven’t discussed here in a while. If you’re much younger than 30 you’re welcome to read on if you’re curious, since this is something that will be affecting you in a few years.
), younger women have become such a normal and regular part of my life, I no longer consider it something unique or interesting enough to talk about. Since we’re talking about much younger women here, this article is really geared towards men over age 30 or so.